How can they do this to You?

How can they do this to Me?

You may come across these kinds of situations many times in your life.

It looks like a strong and most pressing question, but it is a fact that frequently happens in our life.

When these kinds of situations happen, you strongly believe that some weird thing has happened to you. It is natural but you might not be correct here. Then

How to Handle this Weird Situation?

Whenever you face such an unfavourable situation, always have this in mind “this does not happen purposely!”.

Always have a broad mind, and don’t think in your perspective alone. 

“What you think right may not be suitable for others; what others think right may not be suitable for you!”

This is the universal truth, and you have to accept it in its way. Then how can you handle these conflicts when they arise?

You have to try to understand yourself and the people around you.


How to Understand People?

Though the reason for the situation is either positive or negative, try to avoid digging it. Take it positively as it happened due to some reasons.

I understand this recently from an actual incident happened for the actor Mr. Puneeth Rajkumar who had expired last month.

Initially, when the lakhs of his fans gathered for his funeral, I was thinking “what is happening over there? He is also human like others. Why are people giving so much attention to a particular person alone?”

But when I knew the reality about him, I felt sorry for my mistake and grateful for such a helpful soul in this world.

It happened due to a lack of understanding about the people. So always take everything positively.

It is not only for you, it has to be followed with others too.

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Importance of Understanding Others

When your friend or relative faces such a negative situation, don’t pour oil into the fire and make a small gap into a big one. 

Instead of reacting like “How can they do this to you?” Tell your friend, “Don’t mind! We don’t know their situation. They might be stuck up with something else, or they may have something else in their mind, so let’s not bother about that.”

Understanding Others

It keeps the relationship together and safe. 


Understanding others’ points of view is a skill that needs to be practiced regularly. But once you truly understand how to let go, you will understand the people as entirely different.

Even if you cannot ignore such unfavorable situations, you can ask them directly, “Is there any reason you did this?” instead of blaming to others, “How can they do this to me?”

It may give clarity so that you can avoid misunderstandings.

I hope you understand, and would you please share your thoughts in the comments?

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